No, they are not losing their minds. Pets are no longer something to keep chained up outside or in a doghouse, but rather they are considered treasured members of a boomer's family. They are like their kids, only lower maintenance and more cooperative. They are a genuine part of the household, sharing eating, sleeping and family vacations.
Pets are so significant, that when the "real" kids leave home for college or to start their own lives, it is the pets that fill the empty nest and emotional void. Many baby boomers are no longer burdened with the cost of raising children, and are even willing to use their extra income to extend the lives of their furry friends. Boomers are opting for expensive surgeries and preventative procedures that rival human medicine, just to keep their pets around longer.
Baby boomers continue to spoil their pets as they did their children and the bond between them is growing and strong. Pets give boomers peace of mind and comfort during the difficult transition time when they must let their children "fly the coop." Pets help them feel less lonely and more needed.
Having pets has so many health benefits, too. They help reduce blood pressure, triglyceride and cholesterol levels and even reduce the number of trips to the doctor and time spent in the hospital. Research shows that you have to remain healthy since your pets are so dependent on you for walking, feeding and maintaining their healthy quality of life. Pets decrease anger, frustration, depression and reduce stress. They also give you a sense of purpose and satisfaction.
My wonderful pet, Gus, was a feral, non-friendly cat when we first met. However, he became the most affectionate, devoted and loving cat I've ever owned. He has, by far, the sweetest temperament and disposition. Not only is he a ""lap-cat when I watch TV, but he's a "curl up in your arms in bed" cat at night. The house is quieter without the kids, but just as joyful and alive with my sweet, best companion, Gus, in it.
Animals are natural born healers and they lift up your spirits and bring you a feeling of well-being that you often cannot get anywhere else. There is no better way to enrich your life than by sharing it with the unconditional love of a pet (or 2), especially when you are transitioning through the empty nest.
Amy Sherman, LMHC, is a licensed mental health counselor in private practice. Amy is the author of the ebook, "Distress-Free Aging: A Boomer's Guide to Creating a Fulfilled and Purposeful Life." She specializes in issues specific to the 40+ generation and is available for telephone coaching, face-to-face therapy, teleseminars, radio and TV interviews. For more information, go to http://www.bummedoutboomer.com, sign up for her free newsletter. She can be reached by email at amy@bummedoutboomer.com or by phone at 561) 281-2975.
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